Venus Williams was right in advocating that you ask yourself: “Do I feel good?”
I made myself miserable trying to work in corporate office jobs and have a so-called normal life.
The title of my memoir Left of the Dial was intended to sum up my manifesto for having a healthy lifestyle doing what you love and acting true to yourself.
If you don’t feel good, it’s hard to be happy and your mental health suffers. Trying to be someone you’re not will backfire every time.
Venus Williams alludes to allowing yourself to fail, rise up, and try again. Doing this you can gain equal footing with men who think they’re hot shit simply because they exist.
My goal is that by reading Left of the Dial you’re empowered to dare dream of having a life defined on your own terms.
First of all, I wanted to tell a good story people would enjoy reading. Then I wanted to create a character readers could root for.
Left of the Dial chronicles all the failures I experienced along the way.
Speaking your truth can be scary because there’s a lot at stake. Only I had no fear because I believed in my vision of Recovery for Everyone.
This might be an impossible goal yet it’s the one I shoot for.
The secret to having a successful recovery is choosing to be happy even when the circumstances of your life are less than ideal.
Success lies in liking yourself even when it seems no one else does.
These elements flow in the Left of the Dial narrative.
With time and (for most of us) a consistent daily medication routine, it’s possible to have a better life and to achieve goals.
I”m committed to telling my story to help the very people who need to hear my message of hope, healing, and recovery.
If you want to feel good and if you want to transmute your pain, there is no better tonic than service to others.
You will get the things you want that you’re supposed to have when they’re supposed to arrive. Not a minute sooner or later.
It’s the journey that counts not the destination.
So I tell you at whatever age you are now (20? 32? 45? Older?) to ask yourself if you feel good. What can you do to give yourself joy and to give others joy?
That is the secret to feeling good.
That is the ultimate definition of success: feeling good about yourself and having empathy for others.